November 12, 2025

👉 The Hardening of Hearts: America’s Rightwing Cruelty Crisis and the Call to Repentance

BY Paul Swearengin

Something is dying in America, and it isn’t our democracy alone.
It’s our collective capacity for empathy.

We are witnessing the hardening of hearts of a people group in real time.
And if history – calendar history and spiritual history alike – teaches us anything, it’s that societies do not collapse only because of what the powerful do — they collapse because of what the rest of us are willing to tolerate.


A Season of Red Hatters with Hardened Hearts

How else can we describe a moment when ICE agents attack innocent citizens — American families, children, and workers — and we scroll by in silence?

How else can we explain a people who nod along as a president pardons his friends and attorneys who tried to overturn an election?

How else do we stomach an administration bombing boats and threatening war with no verified justification — not because of defense, but because a leader’s ego was bruised?

How else do we celebrate when a political party intentionally takes food assistance from hungry Americans, or disrupts air travel to force its will, and still call it “governance”?

This is what a hardened heart looks like on a national scale.
When cruelty stops shocking us.
When propaganda numbs us.
When we defend the indefensible because it comforts our ideology.

Check out my Video on Hardened Hearts and Trans People

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We’ve Been Here Before

In the Exodus story of the Plagues of Egypt, we see a devolution of Pharoah hardening his heart. Then, as plagues continued, his heart was hardened. Finally, after turning away from goodness and empathy enough times, the story says God hardened his heart – he lost all access to goodness and empathy.

History warns us that every empire that falls follows the same pattern: fear, scapegoating, violence, and denial.

We have enslaved human beings in the name of profit.
We have imprisoned Japanese-American citizens out of paranoia.
We have broken unions and exploited workers because comfort mattered more than conscience.

The hardening of hearts has happened before. And every time, repentance required truth, courage, and humility.


What the Way of Jesus Actually Looks Like

There isn’t one thing on that list that Jesus would have endorsed.
He would not have turned away from suffering.
He would not have bombed the innocent, excused corruption, or mocked the hungry.
He would have flipped tables. He would have fed people. He would have told the truth even when it cost him everything.

To repent doesn’t mean to say a magic prayer or join a sectarian club.
It means to change your mind and your direction.
It means to stop walking toward fear and start walking toward love.


The Path Back to Softness

If you want to resist the hardening of your own heart — start here:

  • Learn history. Read about the Japanese internment camps (try Farewell to Manzanar by Jeanne Wakatsuki Houston and James D. Houston). Study how fear becomes law.
  • Learn who Jesus was. Not the American mascot, but the rebel rabbi who broke purity codes to touch the untouchable.
  • Look in the mirror. Ask yourself whether celebrating a child’s death by suicide is who you want to be.
  • Listen beyond your echo chamber. Sit with stories from people who don’t share your experience, and listen with humility.
  • Read something new. Try Letter from Birmingham Jail by Martin Luther King Jr. or Malcolm Gladwell’s Talking to Strangers.
  • Truly learn about mental health. Study what the DSM actually says, not what fearmongers say it does.
  • Fast from your media diet. Turn off the talk shows and algorithms for a week. Notice if your heart feels lighter, softer, freer.

A Final Word

Pharaoh’s story isn’t ancient.
It’s being written right now — on the steps of our capitols, in the silence of our pulpits, and on the screens of our phones.

Every day, we are choosing whether our hearts will harden or soften.
And maybe repentance, in this moment, simply means remembering how to feel again.


Tags: #Politics #FaithAndJustice #Deconstruction #CivicCourage #EmpireIsBurning

Discussion Prompt (Comment Below):

🕊 How do you keep your empathy alive in a world that rewards cruelty?
đź’Ś Reply or comment with one small practice that helps you stay tender.

#SacredRebellion #FaithAndJustice #EmpathyIsRevolutionary #Deconstruction #CivicCourage #UnconventionalPastorPaul

Paul has a unique set of skills that has taken him from: - the television desk as a TV sportscaster - to the broadcast booth as a radio sports announcer/talk show host - to the pulpit as a founder/Sr Pastor of an evangelical church - to TikTok as a popular creator - to the classroom currently as a community college professor. Paul supported his spouse Ashley in winning two elections as mayor of Fresno, CA. Paul and Ashley now talk religion and politics and 21st century spirituality on the Evangelicalish podcast. Paul also authored the novel "Religious Right Religiously Wrong: A Modern Day Parable" and crafted his emotional and spiritual well-being curriculum: "DeconstructionU" & "ReconstructionU" which he uses for life coaching. In all his massive amounts of spare time, Paul is working on a Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy and continues his own therapeutic journey as a non-gendered, Dissociative Identity Disorder multiple and father of the two greatest children in the world.
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