April 30, 2025

The Cross Is Not A Couch

BY Rev. Heather
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Are You Committed to Christ, or Just Hooked on the Comfort He Brings?

I used to sit in churches where the pastor would warn us about complacency.

They’d stand behind the pulpit and say, “Don’t get too comfortable.”
“Complacency is the thief of growth.”

And it’s true.

When we’re comfortable, we tend not to stretch. We don’t risk. We don’t move beyond what we know. We cling to the predictable, even when it’s spiritually stagnant.

But following Jesus was never meant to be comfortable.

The cross is not a couch.

If we are truly taking up that cross and walking the path Jesus marked for us, there will be pushback. There will be tension. There will be moments of deep discomfort—not because we’re doing it wrong, but because we’re actually doing it right.

Jesus didn’t promise ease. He promised presence. He promised purpose. And purpose rarely comes without pain.

You’ll be mocked for believing in what others call a fairytale.
You’ll be dismissed if your message doesn’t uphold the comfort of patriarchal traditions.
You’ll be ignored if your gospel doesn’t sound like what people are used to hearing—especially if it challenges them to change.

Because people don’t want to be disturbed.
They want a faith that feels good, not a faith that does good.
They want grace without grit, salvation without transformation, heaven without healing the earth.

But Scripture is clear:
“Faith without works is dead.”
(James 2:17)

It’s not enough to believe.
Belief is the beginning—but it’s not the whole journey.

We cannot say we follow Christ if we are unwilling to move, to serve, to speak, to heal, to act.

If you want to grow in your spiritual walk, you have to go where you’ve never been before.
You have to love the people you’ve been taught to fear.
You have to challenge the systems you were raised to protect.
You have to question the doctrines that have caused harm.
You have to be willing to let go of the comfort that’s been disguising itself as Christ.

Jesus didn’t die so we could stay safe inside sanctuaries.
He rose so we could rise too—into boldness, into purpose, into justice, into love.

If your walk with God never leads you to wrestle, to risk, to repent, to change…
It’s worth asking:
Is it really Christ I’m following, or just the idea of Him that makes me feel good?

This walk will cost you.
But it will also free you.
And more than that—it will free others.

Because true faith doesn’t just stay inside your chest.
It moves your hands. It moves your feet. It moves you out of the pew and into the world.

Comfort is not the goal.

Christ is.

Heather is a Reverend, writer, and podcast host who ministers to the unchurched, questioning, and deconstructing. After decades in religious spaces, she now walks alongside those who are finding their own way outside the walls, beyond the dogma, and into something truer.
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